There was a girl who was waiting for her man. Many courted her but it seems they are not what she likes to be with for the rest of her life.
She was a victim of unfaithful men and a false hope love.
She is broken deep inside with every hurtful memories each of her lover left for her. She felt alone and unloved.
She is a very faithful woman and she said that when the right time comes, he will love the man wholeheartedly and will always be faithful with him.
Here is checklist of choosing her man.
1. A faithful man
Every girl wanted a faithful man. There are two kinds of a faithful man:
Being faithful to a girl
It means that when a man loves a girl, she's the only one.
No more room for other girls to spy on or admire most.
Being faithful to God
Once a man is in love with God, he will carefully watch over his works.
He will not attempt do bad things or to cheat to a girl because he knows that sin breaks the heart of God.
2. Someone who really loves me
There are different kinds of love:
Those are puppy love, infatuation and true love.
Puppy love is a love common to teenagers. It is commonly based on crush, like admiration on appearance, intelligence or ability.
Infatuation is a love that is based on temporary feelings. A love that fades is not a sign of true love.
True love is an unconditional love. It loves without conditions and its endless and self less.
Someone who truly loves based his love in 1 Corinthians 4:7-8. That's an exact characteristics of love.
3. I am in love with
One of the most tragic things in life is marrying a man that you are not in love with. There are really people that I met whom they are not in love with the person they marry. There are different issues like money or marriage arrangement that are made as reasons to a forced marriage. It is so hard to force yourself to love a person whom you don't really love that's why looking for a person whom you love is a must thing.
4. Has an authority over me.
Most girls like a man who has a father-like character. Someone who can be the head of the family someday must know how to be a leader. A man is the head of the wife and God is the head of the man. It is the a man's responsibility to lead the wife in the decision making and a responsibility of a woman to support the man.
That's why it's better to find a man who knows to lead. A good leadership is one key of a successful relationship.
5. Has a good hygiene
Of course no one wants to smell a bad odor especially if it's a body odor. It's nice to hug a man that even his sweat smells like perfume.
6. Has a common sense
An intelligent man is an attractive man. Beauty can be easy to improve but an intelligence needs an innate capacity as well as hard work. It's nice to have a boyfriend who can understand every little things that you say. Someone who can advise in a good way and listens attentively.
7. Has a good voice quality
One of the ways to know a real is through listening to his voice.
A ma with a soft voice can be thought as a gay. Also, a man with a thin voice can be hurtful to ears. Girls just have a different insights about the voice tone it's much better to listen to the tone of man and as well as the accents and the quality of words he speaks to know something about his personality.
8. Has a Good Character
Having a good character is different from a having a good personality.
A character is an attitude while personality is something that makes them unique.
The character that is commonly looked in a guy is kindness, selflessness and humility.
A kind man is a man who is aware of what's right and what's wrong.
A selfless man is not a selfish man. It's good to be with a selfless man because he will love you wholeheartedly and will provide you unselfishly.
Last thing is humility. It goods to feel to be with a man who listens without interruption. Someone who's willing to lower his pride in every situation just to do what's right and especially if it's for your goodness. Someone who thinks of others more than himself. A humble man who's willing to surrender his life to God and is willing to follow God to be a good person.
9. A Gentleman
Every woman desire to have a partner who is a gentleman. In this world full of bad influences, a gentleman is like a gold, they are hard to find. A gentleman is also a selfless man. He prioritizes first the woman's needs after himself. Like for example, carrying the bag of the woman when they walk. It's a gentlemen's way yet it only proves that a man is a selfless and a humble man. He ignores how heavy the load he is carrying just for the sake of woman's comfort.
10. A Responsible Man
One of the obligations of a father is to be a provider. A man can't be a good provider if he is not a responsible person. Also, a man cannot be responsible if he is a lazy man. Someone who is a future provider must know how to prioritize things and values the art of hard work.
11. Brave Spiritually and Emotionally
There are a lot of definitions of being brave but for me, a brave person is someone who never quits and when he falls, he will stand.
A man who will fight for your faith in Jesus and will bring you closer to God is a spiritually brave man. It needs a pure heart a wisdom to be able to surpass life's challenges and temptations.
12. Someone who creates a happiness in my heart
Well it's not easy to find. Someone who has a good sense of humor doesn't guarantee to make a girl happy. Every girl has it's own taste of happiness but I guess all wants to be contented. Just being with and the man he loves and to be with him can already make a girl happy. But of course, it's a plus points to a man who knows how to make a girl happy in his own way. Never underestimate the happiness in having sense of humor. It's one of the qualities that makes him attractive to girls.
13. Someone whom I'll be proud of having
A woman is a crown of a man. It's a man's pride to have a wonderful woman. In the same way, a man can also be a source of pride from a woman. It's nice to walk together in a park with a man whom you are proud of having. Not only his physical appearance counts, but also his personality and character.
14. Someone whom I'll be contented
Never commit to a relationship if you are not contended with him, if you are still searching for someone else better. Once you commit, always put in your heart that he will be the only one for you now and forever. It may not be easy to find man whom you will be contented having, but it's worth it. You may not found a perfect man but being contented and satisfied with him can lead to a faithful relationship.
15. Someone whom I will not regret of choosing
No matter who the person is and no matter what characteristics he has, most important thing is that I will not regret of choosing that person.
The best thing to do not to fall to a wrong person is to pray for it. Prayer changes everything. There is no impossible in God. So as early as now, start praying for your man. Give your heart to God and God will give your heart to someone who knows how to take care of it.
Update: As of 2016, the girl finally found the man he is looking for. It was not because she looks for it but God gave it to her. She is now happy having a boyfriend and a man of God. They are now planning to marry soon. May God bless there relationship. May God bless them growing old together.
Note: This is based in a true story and experience. You are free to comment and share this to your friends. God bless.
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